The Top Books on Attracting Women

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On this page I’ll tell you about my favorite books on attracting women, and why you should read them if you want to learn how to attract women. However let me first talk a little bit about learning how to attract women.

The Misconception

Unfortunately there’s a huge misconception about learning how to attract woman. A lot of people think that learning this is about learning some sort of manipulation. When in reality it’s about how to improve your social skills and becoming a man that’s more interesting and fun to hang out with. Something that more people should get into, both women and men. 

Why you Should Read Books on Attracting Women

Just as when you want to learn any type of new skill and develop as a person, the first step is to study the knowledge that exists and then practice it. That’s why I have written this guide on the best books on how to attract women. But before you check out my favorite books on the subject, I’ll share some personal reflections on whats most important when it comes to attracting women.

The Foundation

In the same way that self confidence is the foundation for becoming great in bed (see The Master Key), it’s the foundation for meeting and attracting women. To increase your self confidence you need to study and practice. Eventually the self-confidence will follow. That’s why reading these books will be hugely beneficial to you. That is, if you also take action.

Another thing to consider is the exterior. Although it isn’t as important for women as for men. There is no reason why you shouldn’t make it as good as it can be. So make sure you take care of your appearance; clothing and hygiene, shoes, haircut, body, etc.

The Interior

Once you got the exterior taken care of, you should of course also take care of the interior. Become an interesting person by doing things that you enjoy and that develop you as a person. 

When you are an interesting and handsome person its time to show it. Make sure that you are located in places, virtual or physical, where you meet and interact with women. Interacting is key. How would you otherwise be able to practice the stuff that you will learn in these books.

Last but not least. You’re not after sex from women. If you been taking advantage of everything that The Pleasure Keys has to offer, it’s women who will receive amazing experiences from you.

With these things in mind, go ahead and check out my three top books on attracting women

The Art of Seduction

Although not a book that should be take to seriously, its still a great read and a must for anyone interested in social dynamics and seduction. After all, it’s one of the classics on the topic.

The book presents a list of principles for seduction. Each chapter looks deeper at the different principles, and provide lots of entertaining and interesting stories to go with them .

However, even the author himself stated that anyone who follow all the rules in the book would be a horribly ugly person to be around. Don’t be this person, instead use the book as an inspirational tool and with good intentions.

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Models

Before Mark Manson wrote The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck and became a NYTimes bestselling author, he wrote Models. And Models really is a great book on how to become an attractive man. That’s right not on how to act as an attractive man, but actually how to become an attractive man. And if you want to learn how to attract women this should be your main goal. 

The book introduces lots of useful concepts. For example the concept that all girls are either; receptive, non receptive or neutral to you. And by being honest you can find out who are receptive and neutral and both get the neutral and receptive women attracted to you. By developing as a person you will also increase the amount of women who is receptive and neutral.

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How to Be a 3 % Man

In comparison to most other books on the topic (and the other books I recommend here), this book gives lots of relationship advice. Thus you can view it as a guide that takes you all the way from seduction to relationship. And the book is a great read if you are interested in a long term relationship.  

Among some of the things that the author goes through in the book is what increases and what lowers attraction. Instead of teaching pickup lines the author explains that women just want to be understood and he also explains how you make them feel understood. 

The idea in this book is that by reading it you will join the 3 % men who really understand women. 

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After having read the above books and applied the knowledge, attracting women will be easy. To learn the next step, check out my blogpost: The Best Books on How to Please a Woman Sexually.