The Best strokers for men – The Ultimate Stroker Guide

fleshlight - the no1 stroker for men

Different types of penis strokers are getting increasingly popular and socially acceptable. Thanks to, or maybe because of the increase in popularity, the technological advances have also been huge over the past 10 years.

Lifelike strokers, vibrating strokers and water-resistant strokers for your morning shower, are just a few of the types of strokers that are available. Most strokers for men are lined with different kinds of stimulating textures, perfect to make them hit all your right spots.

Of course you can keep on doing the old five-fingered salute. But if you feel like quitting your fight against evolution and instead experiencing all the pleasure that the sex toy technology in the 21 century has to offer, this guide got you covered.

Why we Like Playing with Strokers

Sex is great. A lot of variety when it comes to sex is even better. There is no need to have the same dish every day when there is a buffet of sensations out there. Stimulated the right way, your penis will make you experience some crazy intense pleasure.

A good stroker will tease, squeeze, and stimulate your cook in the best possible way. You will have lots of fun and some strokers will definitely make you experience pleasure you’ve never felt before.

If I still haven’t convinced you, a stroker is also a fun way to get to know your body and build your stamina for sex with others.

The material of the stroker you buy is important for how nice and realistic the experience will be. Generally speaking, more expensive strokers consist of high-quality material that will give your penis a silky and plush experience, while at the same time being as firm and squeezy as the real thing.

Why you should get a Stroker

If the pleasure argument doesn’t have you convinced, there are a couple of other advantages with using a stroker.

  • Increase stamina – With the help of a stroker you can increase your stamina. You do this by practicing edging with the help of the stroker. Use the stroker until you are almost about to orgasm. Stop using the stroker and wait around 30 seconds until you’ve cooled down a bit. Repeat the process for as many times you can manage. This little game gives you better control over your orgasm.
  • Helping with erection or orgasm problems – If you have some form of erection problem, or have a hard time reaching orgasm, a penis masturbator could help, being this toy a complement to the professional help.
  • A less stressful couple relation – A stroker is also a great tool for when you and your partner have a mismatched libido. Or you can use the stroker on your own to have a fulfilling stress-free sexual experience.

How to use your Stroker

Penis strokers are ridiculously easy to use, another reason why you should give them a try.

If you will be using a penis masturbator that uses a battery or USB, I recommend checking the charge before use. You don’t want to run out of charge in the middle of the action!

You can warm up most strokers with the help of warm water.

Before you dig in, always use a lubricant. Water based lube is often required since many strokers for men are made of silicone. The lube brings the stroker to life and gives you a smooth slide without any friction.

Many strokers allow you to use your hand or fingers to enhance the pleasure. For example, you can squeeze the stroker even tighter, or close the other side of the stroker to create stronger suction inside the stroker

After you are done playing, rinse and clean your stroker with warm water and a bit of soap, or a sex toy cleaner. Let it dry before you put the stroker back in its box.

Using the Stroker Together With Your Partner

Not only are strokers great for when you are alone, they are also a good addition to sex with your partner. Let your girlfriend use her favorite sex toy, while you are giving the stroker a go. Keep eye contact while both of you enjoy yourself and maybe share an orgasm without even touching each other.

You can also let your girlfriend take control and be the one who delivers pleasure by holding the stroker.

Your partner won’t be able to resist giving you a go with the stroker when she sees how much the sex toy turns you on. Some penis strokers are even short and open-ended and can be combined with oral sex. Double the stimulation, double the pleasure.

My Recommendations

For the Beginner

Fleshlight Go: Surge $ 59.95

fleshlight male stroker

The fleshlight is a modern classic for a reason, and I recommend starting with the real deal. Sure, you can find a cheaper pocket pussy than this one. But you won’t get the same premium experience. This version is a smaller, more travel-friendly option. Thanks to the black exterior and modest size, it’s also very easy to hide.

The suction feeling is nothing short of amazing.

The ribbed inside really does a trick on your cock. The material is high quality with a smooth and firm texture.

If you don’t want the travel version, but rather want to invest in everything you need and a bit extra, I recommend going for the stamina building deluxe kit. With this set, you also get a shower mount for some wet handsfree thrusting. Your next shower will be so much more enjoyable and sexier.

Pros

Easy to transport

High quality
Cons

Simple design


For the Partner in Crime

Super Stroker Beaded Masturbator $ 32.95

the super stroker for men

If you are in a relationship and your partner is open to trying, I can’t recommend this one enough. As you can see, it’s not a steep investment, but it is a lot of fun. Run it under hot water to warm it up before you dive in.

  Many men swear by the simple construction of a beaded classic stroker, claiming their most powerful orgasms come from this straightforward stroker.

Since it’s see-through, your partner can enjoy watching the action. The open-ended design makes it suitable for most sizes as well as easy to clean.

This masturbator offers the possibility of masturbating the penis and having its head receive oral sex. The experience is pure heaven.

Pros

Good price/quality ratio

Easy to clean
Cons

Simple Design


For the Naughty Pussy Lover

TENGA Black Flip Hole Masturbator $249.99

TENGA Black Flip Hole Masturbator

This high-tech product was designed with pleasure in mind. The inside is lined with smooth, luxurious silicone. Once you dive into this innovative sex toy, you will feel an amazing varied texture. Bumps, nodules, nubs and ridges will tease your nerve ending and make you hard and horny in no time. The three buttons down the side allow you to add pressure to different sections of the toy. The harder you squeeze, the more suction you get out of it.

Since you can flip it open, you don’t need an erection to start using this stroker.

The TENGA Black Flip Hole arrives in a discreet package. It also comes together with samples of three different kinds of lube to give you additional pleasure. The easy and quick clean-up process and superb quality separate this penis stroker from other similar products.

This penis masturbator is semi-transparent, allowing you to look at yourself during penetration. It also has two vibrating cores with 5 vibration settings to stimulate you during use.

If you can’t get enough of this penis stroker, there is also the vibrating version for a shockingly good upgrade.

Pros

Discreet package

High-tech
Cons

Moderate investment


For the Old-Fashioned Anal Fan

Jessica’s Tight Anal Stroker $22.95

Jessica's Tight Anal Stroker for men

With this stroker, you can stop dreaming and get the action going. You will always have this ass available. Made in soft and stretchy jelly, the Jessica’s Tight Anal Stroker will mesmerize your cook with every stroke.

The tight teasing hole you have to push yourself through to get to all the good stuff, just like the real thing, sets this stand apart from many other strokers apart. Once inside, the ribs and nubs will provide a nice and firm massage. Thanks to the closed end, the incredible suction will have you in a tight grip, just like the real thing. Give it a squeeze around the middle for an even tighter feeling. You will be shocked at how good it feels.

When you are done, you can just flip the sleeve inside out for easy cleaning.

Pros

Soft

Stretchy

Easy clean
Cons


Simple design



If your dream ass is chocolate-colored, I suggest this anal stroker.

For the Blow-Job Fantast

TENGA Original Vacuum Deep Throat Onacup $ 14.99

Original Vacuum Deep Throat Onacup

When it comes to masturbation, the Japanese know what they are doing. The TENGA Original Vacuum Deep Throat Onacup is Japan’s number 1 penis sex toy. It comes pre-lubed and ready to go. The cup fits perfectly in your hand and it’s very lightweight.

The different textures inside make each stroke feel unique and different and heighten the sensation. That’s what set this stoker apart from other strokers.

The only downside with the Onacup is that it’s a one-time use kind of sex toy. With the help of a thin condom, you can stretch its life span to a couple of happy times. The Onacup will be the most expensive wank you will ever have, but also deliver one of the most powerful orgasms of your lifetime. Now 19.99 doesn’t seem too expensive in that context, does it?

Pros

Pre-lubed

Ergonomic
Cons

One-time use



For the Serious

The Milker Automatic Stroker $ 599.95

The Milker Automatic Male Stroker

What would inspire someone to spend $ 599.95 on suction equipment?

This is a toy for an experienced sex toy user looking to be blown away by his next purchase.

What’s makes The Milker Automatic Stroker truly unique is that it has managed to combine the sensation of a blowjob with the sensation of getting laid. This machine both sucks and strokes at the same time.

The stroker arrives with two different cylinders to alternate between, one long and one short. The longer suits your shaft and the shorter is excellent for stimulating the head. With the help of the dial, you control how fast or slow you want the machine to go. There are fifteen vibrating modes to ensure lots of different sensations. The vibrations together with the tightness created by the suction feel amazing and authentic.

Pros

Speed control

Innovative design
Cons

For experienced users

High investment

For the Experienced

Mega Grip Squeezable Vibrating Pussy Stroker $ 123.95

vibrating pussy stroker for men

If you love your pocket pussy and adore vibrating sex toys, this male stroker combines the best of both worlds. You can increase your pleasure even more by squeezing this stroker to create stronger suction. The inside consists of lifelike Fanta flesh that easily warms to your body temperature to give you an authentic experience.

Plunge into the tunnel and enjoy. The ten vibrating functions that will push you to an explosive orgasm.

This sex toy comes with everything you need to look after your new stroker, powder, lube and a special toy cleaner. The sleeve can be removed and used as a simple stroker, for those times when you don’t need a vibrating sex toy.

Pros

Wet

Vibrating firmness
Cons

High investment



For the Extra Everything Guy

ElectraStim Jack Socket Stroker $ 125.00

electrastim socket stroker

Tantus are famous for their high-quality, innovative sex toys. The ElectraStim Jack Socket is no exception, a double award-winning compact realistic stroker that will make you come harder than ever before.

The way this male stroker hugs your penis makes it very close to the real thing. Since the outer case is squeezable, you can adjust the pressure to your liking.

To supply you with the promised electro-stimulating experience, you need an external stimulator. Just connect an estim stimulator to this stroker for a larger-than-life masturbating experience.

There are two versions of this sex toy, one Standard, and one XL. Standard has a raised bumps texture that squeezes you tightly for intense contact. In contrast, the XL sleeve has a ‘ribs’ texture that produces a subtle suction sensation during use. A tube of conductive gel is also included in this set.

Pros

High-quality
Cons

High investment

The Best Penis Stroker – All Categories

TENGA Black Flip Hole Masturbator $249.99

TENGA Black Flip Hole Masturbator

Innovative vibrating penis masturbator with internal textures for strong-yet-soft-stimulation. It´s semi-transparent, allowing you to look at yourself during penetration.

Simply lube up, slide your schlong into the masturbator to discover amazing textures and sensations, then switch on the vibrations for full-throttle thrills.

This penis masturbator also has two vibrating cores with 5 vibration settings to stimulate you during use.

Thanks to their truly innovative book-like design, Flip Hole masturbators make thorough cleaning a doddle.


Masturbation has never been this pleasurable and advanced before. When it comes to male strokes, we live in the best of times. Don’t miss out on the fun.


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Federico Bordón is a specialist in general and family medicine, clinical and educational sexology. He is also teaching coordinator in the postgraduate course in general and family medicine for the National University of Rosario. He is based in Santa Fe (Argentina). You can also find Federico on LinkedIn and Instagram.


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